What a glorious day!!! We had our first fostering experience this weekend and if you didn't hear from us, that is because we were completely consumed and exhausted....more so than having a newborn. We picked him up on Sat. evening and he was very distraught. He was an 18 month old Romanian boy whose entire family was incarcerated. He was still breastfeeding and had a pretty good cold and mild fever, but it was very clear that he was well taken care of...seemed strange to us how this could happen. He was crying and saying, "mama, mama," over and over for hours on end. The only time he was silent was in the car because he thought he was going to see mom, so we went out, just to go out. He was sooo smart. He'd bring us our shoes/coats and get his ready, so that he could head out the door and find his family. If he could drive, he would've done it. What a determined little boy. This was VERY difficult for us...to watch how sad he was and the longing to be with his mom. The nights were very long and Ryan mentioned to me on Sunday that he didn't know if he could do this. God had a plan and he knew just what everyone in the situation could handle.Monday, October 25, 2010
Peace restored!
What a glorious day!!! We had our first fostering experience this weekend and if you didn't hear from us, that is because we were completely consumed and exhausted....more so than having a newborn. We picked him up on Sat. evening and he was very distraught. He was an 18 month old Romanian boy whose entire family was incarcerated. He was still breastfeeding and had a pretty good cold and mild fever, but it was very clear that he was well taken care of...seemed strange to us how this could happen. He was crying and saying, "mama, mama," over and over for hours on end. The only time he was silent was in the car because he thought he was going to see mom, so we went out, just to go out. He was sooo smart. He'd bring us our shoes/coats and get his ready, so that he could head out the door and find his family. If he could drive, he would've done it. What a determined little boy. This was VERY difficult for us...to watch how sad he was and the longing to be with his mom. The nights were very long and Ryan mentioned to me on Sunday that he didn't know if he could do this. God had a plan and he knew just what everyone in the situation could handle.Wednesday, October 20, 2010
Ryan Asia Post
Well, I wanted to give you all an update regarding my Asia trip.
Singapore – Started my trip in S’pore last Monday and it was more like a resort type city.. very clean and didn’t have the feel of Malaysia as the City had more high rises than Seattle and Portland combined. The building architecture was tremendous and one of the coolest buildings I have ever seen was in the heart of the city. It was a hotel/casino that had 3 high rise towers that were all connected with sky bridges. Then on the top they had build what looks like a cruise ship that spans across all of the towers. They charge the tourists $100 US to enter the monstrosity. The weather there was very hot (90’s) and the humidity was probably 80%+. I ate Asian Fusion while I was there which was a little tough/chewy and not very good. Didn’t realize how close it was to Australia (probably a 2-3 hour flight). The airport in S’pore was the best as all of the security is located at each and every gate. So you check in, and make your way to the gate without any delay. And then each gate has glass doors and windows that opens once your flight is ready to board. At this time you go through the security line. Pretty slick but I’m sure expensive to do.

Penang – Its about an hour flight from S’pore. I took a day trip to see customers (its kind of like a trip to Spokane). It’s amazing what a one hour flight can do to the scenery. Penang is what I would call “real living”. Very busy with people, but our Molex people were very willing to accommodate. The weather there was even hotter than S’pore and more humid. I was drenched all day and every time I would enter a building I would start freezing because of the air conditioning and wet clothes. I went across a bridge that connects the main land of Penang to the Island which was about 2.5-3 miles long. It was huge. I was glad to fly back to S’pore that night only to have Pigeon for dinner with my colleagues.
Hong Kong – I flew from S’pore to HK (3.5hour flight). I got to the airport and low and behold my driver was nowhere to be found. Then I called the Sheraton and they said my reservation had been cancelled. At that point I didn’t know where I was supposed to go. So I called our admin in HK and she explained that they put me in a different hotel. Nice if someone would tell me. After I found out where I was supposed to stay I went to the hotel counter at the airport and requested limo transport. They told me that they were backed up and I should take a cab. So I took a cab and all was good until I got dropped off at the hotel and was told by the hotel concierge that I was ripped off. Evidentially I paid the cabby double what I was supposed to. They told me I should call the police and report it but I was way too tired. Once checked in it was all good. I was upgraded to the lounge floor where they treat you like kings and the food is very western and very good. The next day I had meetings all day at HK Cisco and the day was a success. After that I was taken to a local place to get a suit. Needless to say I stood out like a tall fat white guy that was going to get ripped off. But what they didn’t know is that I was with my local posse. I (they) negotiated a wool suit for $185.00 custom fit. All I did is pick out my material and color and they made it in 2 days. When I showed back up they had another suit that just happened to fit the same as the other one. So I negotiated to buy it for around $80.00. So I got two suites for cheap, did I mention that their custom fit, pretty cool. Friday night I went out with my colleagues and we had some fun. New York on steroids is how I would describe HK. Light when it’s really dark and people everywhere. There are so many people, cars, buildings, etc… Then I was taken to the local market. I got a bunch of knick knacks for friends and family and had fun negotiating with the locals. Again I was with my local posse and had them translating for me.
Chengdu – took a flight from HK to Chengdu China Sunday morning and I’m now here for 2 days. I’m sure I will see some interesting local food. I’m going to walk through our plant there tomorrow which is 1 million square feet in size. The hotel is beautiful and probably the nicest one so far, right behind S’pore. After this I’m on my way to Shanghai to finish off my trip where I will look to buy movies, and more gadgets. I miss all of you and especially my babies (including my lovely wife and sweetheart) Hope everyone is doing well. Love ya..
Ryan is on a plane as I write…only 11 hours…finally!
Tuesday, October 19, 2010
Random post
Reggie’s little mind is always going, creating one thing or another, with paper, lego’s or whatever he can find. He prefers to build with wood, but that is too difficult for mom and dad. His room is filled with the clutter of all of his projects, but I thought his most recent was worthy of a picture….
Reggie’s ipod holder:Clowning around
I’ve been waking up the past two mornings to a couple of clowns wanting their costumes tied. I’m glad they have some time to play in the morning because with school and activities, it is hard for them to have much time together. For some reason they are thinking it is really fun to go outside at 7 in the morning and play in their playhouse. Keep in mind that the weather has really cooled down, so it is probably in the high 50’s. They had all summer to play out there and I think they only did a handful of times….go figure?
Ainsley has been going to a new gymnastics place and she has been challenged a bit more than before, but is really picking it up quickly. Last week, I had one of the girls’ nannies ask me if I knew who the mother was of the little blond girl. She went on to say that she would be the next gold medalist and she loved coming just to see what Ainsley would do next :o). Too bad she really likes dance! We had her dance class today and she is so focused on getting in the right position and she just lights up when she is there. I’ll cross my fingers that she’ll like gymnastics that much some day, but if not it will be a good place for her to build muscle, flexibility and coordination for awhile.
Friday, October 15, 2010
Flying solo
Tuesday, October 12, 2010
All caught up, just in time!
Life feels pretty good these days. My to do list is very short and I’ve been able to volunteer in Reggie’s classroom and have some time to work-out/grocery shop during the day. It is nice having some free time to knock things out, but that is all going to end soon. We are officially certified Foster Parents and already received a call last Friday. Unfortunately, Ryan left for China (for 12 days) the next day and we didn’t think it was a good idea for all parties. It has been a pretty long process, so now that we are nearing the end, it is a crazy reality to think how different our lives could be in just a few weeks! The kids keep asking when we are going to get our new kid. I’m glad they are excited and hopefully, they are going to be good helpers :o).
Monday, October 4, 2010
Trip to Lake Tahoe
Last weekend we took a spontaneous trip to Lake Tahoe. I’ve never been there and wanted to see what all the hype was about. On Wed., I got on-line and found a hotel for $44.00! It had the same review stars as hotels 3 times the cost, so I figured why not. We left Sat. morning and got there around 1:30. We left in a hurry, surprise, surprise, so I didn’t even know what time check-in was. The Blue Lake Inn is a smaller hotel, so he said if the room was ready, we could have the keys. As Ryan was checking in, I could hear him telling Ryan that he didn’t know how we got that rate, but since that what it said, that is what he would charge us. Since Ryan has traveled a lot recently, he has become a hotel snob and was not impressed with our room. Reggie, however, walked in and said, “this is the best hotel ever!” Ainsley was also excited about our home for the night.
Enjoying our hotel room:The weather was beautiful, so we got our suits on and headed to the pool. Reggie has turned into quite the swimmer and was having a lot of fun. The princess was in the hot tub because the pool was too cold. Thankfully, it was a relatively cool hot tub…she would have stayed in there all day if we would have let her. After that, we decided to head to the beach to check out the lake. The location of the hotel was great! It was about a block off the busy strip and a couple blocks from a semi-private beach that we were given passes for. The kids dug in the sand, threw the frisbee with Ryan and played on the play structure a bit. It was record breaking hot weather there, which thankfully was only in the high 70’s, but it felt really warm. We went to test out the water and quickly realized we’d just be looking at it. It was freezing! It was fun to watch the parasailers and be amazed at the size of the lake. Reggie called it a sea-lake, as big as a sea but really a lake! By the end of our play time, no one could walk on the sand because it hurt our feet so bad. It was like tiny, tiny pebbles and our feet got some exfoliation. We like the smooth sand at Lake Cavanaugh much better :o).
They were up bright and early at 6:45, but played quietly so mama and papa bear could get a little more sleep. That morning, we decided to ride the gondola up to the top of the hill. It was very expensive, but worth it! Reggie was pretty nervous (he doesn’t like heights), but ended up doing great. There was a nice viewing area at the top where we took pictures and had a snack. We rode it a little further where we got off and went for a little hike and spotted some big prints, but thankfully, we didn’t see what belonged to those prints. The top is over 10,000 feet and it is a little crazy on the way down. The gondola stopped a couple times and I could see the panic on Reggie’s face. His thoughts seem so much older than the thoughts of a six year old. He’s recently decided he won’t sleep in his room and Ainsley told us it was because he was afraid someone would come in the front door and take him and we asked him if that was true and he said no, he was worried the spider’s were going to get him. So, I guess Ainsley has some big thoughts for a 4 year old! Before I had kids, I thought they had to be like 8 or 10 before they understood things, but now it know it is more like 3!!! It is pretty amazing how smart they are :o). That was a bit of a tangent….we headed out after lunch and both slept a good amount on our 3 ½ hour drive home.
Monday, September 27, 2010
Eye aches/headaches and more
Reggie has been having eye aches that sometimes turn into headaches for about 7 months now and I decided to take him to see our Cranio-Sacral (CS) person in Kirkland. I wasn’t expecting her to find anything, but she said his neck was really stuck. She wanted to see him again before we left, but we ran out of time, so I was hoping she fixed it. He’s had a few more since we’ve been home and these seem to only be in his eye. I took him to the eye doctor and everything checked out fine. But, I was a little worried for a minute when the nurse asked him to read the letters and he said he couldn’t. She kept making them bigger and bigger and he still couldn’t read them, so she switched to numbers and he did fine. I was cracking up when I realized he was trying to make a word out of the letters!
We had only 2 visits with the CS person here in Pleasanton and he hasn’t had an eye ache in 2 weeks :o)! She found some stuff in his shoulder and scar tissue around his lung that she worked out, so he should be all fixed up now. Sad to think that he already has “stuff” at such a young age. I’m glad we are taking care of it now and that we know where to go because it would be a whole lot worse when he’s older. I guess all my crazy physical therapy has not only benefitted me, but everyone I meet and tell about this other option for good health. Doctors these days just want to give you a pill and I’m so thankful there are other great options out there. I just hope someday they are covered by insurance!
Trina health update:
God has been faithful…I am so thankful he gave me the answer to my arthritis pain!!!! My back has been better than it has been in years!!! There is about a week a month where I have some discomfort, but it has gotten better every month and hopefully when I take the birth control pill continuously, I won’t have any pain :o). We just went to Sam’s birthday party this weekend at a tumbling and trampoline gym and I was drawn to participate. It was really a stupid thing for me to do, but I couldn’t resist. It has been over 10 years since I’ve flipped and it took a couple of back tucks before I knew where the ground was and then it was like riding a bike! I had SO much fun and felt like a kid again :o). 3 months ago, I wouldn’t have even dreamed of doing anything like that….the thought would have made me cringe. The true test was waking up the next day with no pain….God is good and his timing perfect!!! I was nervous about fostering, given my pain, but now that burden is off my plate :o).
Doing a Brody (no handed round-off):
I saw my OB about my fibroids and she didn’t feel anything, so I just had an ultrasound and they saw the ovarian cyst and one fibroid that they felt wasn’t big enough to do anything about, so for now, I’m officially done going to the doctor!!!!Tuesday, September 21, 2010
Ainsley's Birthday party in Livermore
Last weekend we had a joint birthday party with Ainsley’s best friend Naomi, and it was a blast. However, the morning started out a bit rough. Everyone thinks Ainsley and Reggie are so mellow and usually, they are, but the 2% of the time they are not, they can be a real handful. We’ve been having some listening issues and it exploded, when, after almost 2 hours of asking, Reggie wasn’t dressed, hadn’t eaten breakfast or picked up his room. I warned him that I would clean up his room (which means I get my bag and take everything I pick up to be earned back at a later date) and he still didn’t move. So, I got my bag and collected quite a few toys. Reggie was screaming, grabbing my arms and then Ainsley got upset and was scratching me and screaming (she gets VERY distressed when Reggie has a fit). They were out of control and I ended up running and hiding in the bathroom while they both had fits. It was like 10 minutes of screaming….I’m sure the neighbors thought someone was dying!!! Thankfully, that doesn’t happen very often, and I’m thinking next time I give a warning, it will be taken seriously.
The day could only get better after that and it did :o). Ryan came home from volunteering at church and I took Ainsley over to the birthday tea party. Libby had done a beautiful job decorating and taking care of every detail and after doing some last minute things, like frosting the cake, the girls arrived. They decorated their goody purses with rhinestones and then some girls painted nails in anticipation of the fairy godmother arriving. The girls were in awe when she showed up. They danced together, painted nails some more, ate lunch (with real tea) and then each girl was crowned a princess. Any of you who know me, know that my party for Ainsley would have been much different, so I have to thank Libby for giving her a beautiful day. I hope she remembers it because she’ll probably never have a party like that again!!!
Ryan and Reggie had some good quality time, riding bikes to McDonald’s, enjoying a nice meal and ice cream and then heading the 3 ½ miles back. At the end of the day, Reggie, said he really enjoyed hanging out with just dad, so we’re going to make an effort to have more one on one time with the kids.
Wednesday, September 15, 2010
Cub scout event and camping
We had a cubscout event a couple weeks ago and it was really fun. At the first June meeting, the scouts were given little wood boats to put together and decorate for this event. They raced them in raingutters. I wasn’t at all sure what this meant, but you can see from the picture that they blow on the sail and the first one to the end wins. It was a riot! They had brackets set up and if you lost, then you raced again in the losers bracket. Reggie did great, he won, then lost, then won, then lost. He was a good sport and had fun. We had a BBQ lunch there and then they had an award ceremony, where all the kids got squirt guns! Even Ainsley got a little one and there was even a hose at the park to fill the guns. Let’s just say Reggie didn’t leave very dry and to no surprise, he loves being a cub scout :o).
Group picture....you can tell the new ones because they wore their special shirt/hat:This was our adventure over the 3 day weekend. We set up the tents and invited Caleb and Naomi over for a sleepover. They’ve never had a sleepover at a friends’ house before, so we weren’t quite sure what to expect, but they did great! The girls were all in one tent and the boys in another and everyone made it through the night. Sleeping in a tent isn’t that comfortable, so Ryan and I were pretty spent the next day, but it was worth it….the kids had so much fun! The best part was taking a shower and using our bathroom in the middle of the nigh-now that’s camping in style :o).
It was even better to be greeted in the morning by Libby and Scott, who brought us donuts from the Donut Wheel. Naomi’s actual birthday was that day, so they thought it would be fun and special and it was a hit.
Tuesday, September 14, 2010
First day of school!!!
The week before school started, we found out who Reggie’s teacher was. To my surprise, it was one of the Kindergarten teachers from last year. She is teaching the combo class (1/2 1st graders, 1/2 kindergarteners). I was a bit surprised and a little disappointed that he would be in the same place (there is a separate building/play structure for the kinders). Reggie was super excited because he knew the teacher and would be in the same classroom setting (he is very reserved in new settings, so we got to skip those nervous feelings this year!). This option had never even crossed my mind, but, once I started thinking about it, I realized it will be a really good thing. The kinders go home half-way through the day, so he has only 12 children in his class for part of the day! He has absolutely loved it so far and has ventured out to the big playground to find his friends on recess and at lunch. For me, it has been a little adjustment. Last year, we were overloaded with information and this year, we don’t get much, just drop the kids and go. I'll be volunteering in his class this year, so I'll get to see how it all works :o). Reggie’s friends are scattered in other classes, so it is more difficult to hang out and visit with mom’s, but we are figuring it out.
We’ve been exploring with lunches…today, I sent teriyaki chicken and rice. Those thermos’s really keep things warm. I made a deal with him that if he eats his vegetable, he can have a small treat and so far, he's mostly been eating them after school. I don’t think his friends will be wanting to steal his lunch anytime soon….they probably wonder why he is eating a spinach salad with croutons! It is always interesting to see what is left at the end of the day. He is a good eater :o).
There are 2 boys in his class from last year and they have an interesting dynamic, so we are learning about bullying and how to pick your friends wisely. Some of the conversations we are having seem crazy for 1st grade, but Reggie is doing the right thing and being more confident in standing up for what is right. Reggie asked if we could call one of the boys mother’s to explain something that had happened in the classroom, so we did and she was very appreciative.
We haven’t been doing much extra activites because we’re still trying to get into a routine, but we’ve had fun biking to school and playing with friends on the playground after school (except the the several days that were over 100 degrees!).
Ainsley started school on Sept. 8th and is having a bit of an adjustment period. I think she has a bit of social anxiety. I’ve been noticing it more and more, starting at her birthday party, now church, gymnastics and school. It is pretty obvious she’s nervous because she puts her hands together under her chin. As time goes on, she relaxes, so I’m hoping this is just a phase. Reggie was very similar, if not worse and he is much different now. I just don’t understand how both of them are like this. I’ve asked myself if it is something I am doing and her teacher assured me that they are the way they are, but it is hard to watch her struggle :o(. Time will tell….I’ve seen just how far kids can go in just one year :o).
Monday, September 13, 2010
Last summer post-Visits with friends/family
We had a nice BBQ with Ryan's family for his birthday. Holly has 3 dogs, so Ainsley was glued to us and I’m not sure if she even spoke a word the entire time! She saved it up and chatted all the way home! Grandma Gloria brought her little dog and Ainsley has been talking about her ever since :o). It was also fun to watch Jamie on Komo 4 T.V. She was in a Powderpuff football game to raise funds for kids and she threw a touchdown pass! Unfortunately, we missed Kim/Shane, Danny/Jeanne and the cousins, so we’ll have to catch up with them at Christmas.
We had a surprise visit with Grandpa Geno and he looked great! Ainsley had an allergic reaction to a bug bite, so I took her in and decided to stop by and see Grandpa. Somehow, he knows more about what goes on in the family than anyone! I got all caught up and had a few candies too :o). Ainsley was very patient, so she got a few candies too. She has asked a few times to go back to visit Grandpa Geno and try some more chocolate candies:o).
We finished the summer with Ainsley’s birthday party! We saw many of the friends and family that were at the 4th; Jim/Ruth, Lacey and kids, Jenisa, Aunt Jana, Aunt Sue/Uncle Rich, Cathy, Michael, Kellen, Laura and the crew and the Rhinehardt’s of course :o). We had a fun time and the kids thoroughly enjoyed the loft, where all of our childhood toys are, as well as some new ones. It looked like a tornado ripped through. Big thank you to Laura and Lacey for helping navigate that clean-up effort!. It was our first rainy party for Ainsley…luckily mom and dad’s new kitchen and dining room accommodated the large crown very nicely. We had a nice BBQ and an awesome cake. Thank you Aunt Sue for making such a lovely Barbie cake for Ainsley…..it was amazing!
The summer seemed to come and go in the blink of an eye! I’m glad we got to see as many friends and family as we did :o). A big thank you to mom and dad, who put up with us all summer!
Wednesday, September 1, 2010
More Summer Fun-A picture is worth a thousand words!
Grandma Peggy took the kids for a couple outings, once to the children’s art festival in Mt. Vernon and another to Friday Harbor. They did some art projects at the art festival and Reggie colored a top that he played with all summer. They went to their favorite place for dinner, McDonald’s! When I picked them up, Ainsley told me she had ice cream for dinner :o). My camera was broken, so no pics :o(
Ferry Ride. Both the kids thoroughly enjoyed the ferry. Reggie told Grandma Peggy that he wanted to live on the boat! Ainsley loved to watch the water crashing off of the boat while they were moving and Reggie enjoyed watching the ferry dock. Of course, they came home with all kinds of goodies and were stuffed from treats. It was good for them to spend the entire day with Grandma and enjoy seeing a new part of Washington.